For some, Christmas is not an easy time. Christmas can be filled with sad memories and missing a loved one that is not with them anymore.
Christmas without someone you love can be a very lonesome time. There may be expectations that you continue with traditions, as others want to see you “doing well”. You may be inclined to ‘pretend’ that you are looking forward to Christmas when in truth you wish things were the way they were before. When you’re grieving, everyone handles their emotions and reactions differently, which at special times of the year, events, and anniversaries this can be harder.
Be gentle, generous, and patient with yourself, plan ahead – tell friends what your plans are, whether you wish to participate or not. Look after yourself – take time to grieve and permission to be sad, cry or not. Talk to other people – friends may offer for you to be with them for events, express what you need. Get support through friends, counselling, reach out and ask for help if needed.
Remember your loved one in a special way. Light a candle for them, place an ornament on the tree to symbolise them, visit the memorial site or somewhere that is important to your family.
May hope and peace of this Christmas season fill your hearts and minds with strength and peace. As we have given thanks for our loved ones today, we will support each other with kindness as we journey forward.”
Creightons Funeral Service Team hope that you have good people to gather around you right now, and you can find some peace during the Festive Season and New Year. Creightons Funeral Service P 4324 1533 creightonsfuneralservice.com.au