Navigating family law mediation can be a complex and emotionally charged process. Preparation is crucial to ensure that you maximise the benefits of mediation, leading to an amicable resolution.
Here are essential tips to help you prepare and make the most of the mediation sessions:
Choose the right mediator and mediation method
Mediators range in their skills, expertise, experience, and personality. It’s important to select a mediator that is well suited to your family.
Decide whether to conduct your mediation via video conference or in person. Video conferences can offer safety and convenience, particularly if there’s a history of intimidation. However, in–person sessions might foster better communication and facilitate closure.
Prepare thoroughly
Gather all necessary documentation such as valuations and financial reports ahead of time. If asset values are disputed, both parties should agree on a valuer and jointly request a valuation, following the formal requirements in the Federal Circuit and Family Court of Australia Rules. Organise your documents to ensure they are clear and non–inflammatory when submitted to the mediator.
Understand the timing and intake process
Don’t rush booking your mediation; ensure you have adequate time to prepare. The intake process with the mediator, where honesty and clarity are essential, sets a solid foundation
for effective mediation.
Conduct reality testing
Before the mediation, rigorously test your position with your legal counsel. At Bilson Law, we assist clients in ensuring that expectations are realistic and grounded in law, enhancing the likelihood of an effective outcome at mediation.
Ensure full disclosure
Provide comprehensive and accurate financial disclosure, including details like superannuation from the beginning of the relationship through to separation. Complete and honest disclosure prevents delays and accurately reflects your financial position.
Use respectful language
Use calm, respectful language during and prior to mediation. Effective communication can significantly influence the mediation’s atmosphere and outcome.
Stay open to various outcomes
Keep an open mind about the outcomes. Mediation may not always lead to a complete resolution in one session. Be prepared to consider alternative dispute resolution options like arbitration, further mediation sessions, parent coordination if initial efforts stall.
Plan for next steps
If mediation does not resolve all the issues in dispute, consider other options such as arbitration or parent coordination, especially in high–conflict situations involving children.
By following these tips and partnering with the dedicated team at Bilson Law, you can enter your family law mediation well–prepared and informed, significantly enhancing your chances of reaching a satisfactory resolution. We are committed to supporting you at every stage of this crucial journey, ensuring your mediation process is as effective and beneficial as possible.
You deserve to approach mediation with confidence and peace of mind. Understanding your position clearly is invaluable, and we’re here to help. We will guide you in selecting the right mediator, assist in developing a settlement proposal, and support you in establishing a strong position throughout the mediation process. We’ll also help in drafting the necessary documents to formalise any agreements reached.
For more information or to get started, contact our team at Bilson Law via email at info@bilsonlaw.com.au or call us at (02) 4339 0999 Suite 4, 210 The Entrance Rd Erina NSW Australia 2250 bilsonlaw.com.au