What to Expect in Your First Family Law Consultation and How to Prepare

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by jacqui bilson, principal solicitor at bilson law

Starting a family law matter can be an emotional and stressful time, especially if you’ve recently experienced a separation. However, taking the first step to arrange a consultation with a family law lawyer can be beneficial in helping you take control of your matter. To ensure you gain the most from your initial consultation, it is important to know what to expect. Here are some key insights to help you navigate your first meeting.

What to expect
The purpose of your initial consultation is for your lawyer to understand the background of your matter and your current circumstances. They will sit down with you and discuss what your legal issue is, what has happened to date, and what it is that you are trying to achieve.

The consultation is a chance for you to share your story. Your lawyer will then provide advice about the possible avenues and processes to resolve your matter, and the prospects of success moving forward.

By the end of your initial consultation you should be:

  • Confident that the advice you are receiving is specific to your circumstances, i.e., not generic information;
  • Be aware of your rights and responsibilities including your expected outcomes;
  • The legal process to resolve your matter; and
  • What your likely costs are going to be.

What to bring
You should bring any documents directly relevant to your case, to help your lawyer understand your current circumstances. The more you can provide your lawyer the better, as they will be able to provide you accurate, personal advice.

For example, relevant documents may include:

  • Identification: NSW Driver’s licence or passport.
  • Marriage certificate.
  • ADVOs either protecting or against a party in the matter.
  • Any previous court orders or parenting plans, or any details of the current parenting arrangements.
  • Any important text messages, emails or letters with the other party.

Our tips on getting the most out of your consultation:

Understand your goals
It is beneficial to take some time to clearly outline your goals and priorities, for example, that it is/is not important that you remain living in the family home.

Prepare a list of questions you have
It is normal to feel overwhelmed, or emotional, so it is helpful to have your questions and concerns written down so you can refer to them during the consultation if need be.

Take some time for yourself
Family law can be stressful and emotionally draining, so you should take some time for yourself to help manage your emotions. Consider talking to a therapist or counsellor to help support you during this time.

Conclusion
Every relationship and separation is unique, and the most beneficial solution differs for each family. While it can be helpful to hear from others who have gone through similar experiences, it is always best to consult with an experienced family lawyer who can provide advice tailored to your specific circumstances.

Taking the step to meet with a family law lawyer can be a daunting experience, but with the right preparation and understanding of what to expect, you can approach your initial consultation with confidence and clarity. Remember, the goal is to empower yourself with knowledge and to set the groundwork for resolving your legal matters effectively.

For more information about family law initial consultations please phone the Bilson Law team and we will be happy to answer any questions you have. | Phone (02) 4339 0999 | Suite 4, 210 The Entrance Rd Erina NSW Australia 2250

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