Sarah Tolmie

by sarah tolmie Reader Question: “In a couple of months’ time I will be retiring from working life. Other than a holiday to mark the transition the month after I …

by sarah tolmie Reader Question:“I think my husband is having a classic ‘mid–life crisis’. He is unhappy in his work. Looking at distractions. Taking up cycling even! I am just …

by sarah tolmie Older Sex: It could be the best you’ve ever had! What better generation to be having fun between the sheets than the original generation of the sexual …

by sarah tolmie Reader Question: “We have just been informed by our son that our grandson who is 13 now ‘identifies’ as a girl. They are formally looking into medically …

by sarah tolmie Reader Question: “I have been deeply unhappy in my marriage for a long while and it has recently built up inside me so big that I can’t …

by sarah tolmie Reader Question: “I am a few years into adjusting to widowhood. It has been hard but I have been doing the work and going ok. I am …

by sarah tolmie Reader Question: “We are planning downsizing our large family home as we enter our ‘third–age’. The task feels overwhelming but we know it is the right decision. …

By Sarah Tolmie Reader Question: “I’m going to be a grandmother in April 2024. I’m still in my 50’s. I feel young and finally free of intensive parenting duties with …

Reader Question: “My ex–husband is unreliable with his contact with our children and grandchildren. I know Father’s Day is coming up. He hasn’t initiated any plans for the day. Should …

By Sarah Tolmie Reader Question: “After 30 years of marriage, my partner and I cannot get over a betrayal and we are done. We are in our mid–60s. I do …